"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rotterdam area

snowdog

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Anyone from around there feeling like going into the field with me? It would be cool to go out with someone I don't know, because being around friends doesn't really help my game.

I'm good at approaching, I'll approach any girl without thinking twice about it. The closing part is where I still have some trouble. I'm looking for someone who is at my level or better.

Just drop a reply, I'll keep watching this thread every now and then.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HeyPachuco!

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I'm in Schiedam now and again every 4months - which is like 15-20 mins to Rotterdam.

Can you give me a downplay on how the woman act towards being approached in your city?

I've been here countless times and gathered that, if you do not know them first-hand, they're quite stubborn and don't give it up easy to foreigners (US and UK).

Especially harder, as many of them can't speak and write English to well even tho apparently that is there 2nd language after Dutch.

Alot of guys when venturing out here think Amsterdam and the Red Light District (hookers) is Netherland's main centre for women, just because it is the capital. But I think, personally Rotterdam/ Eindhoven/ Haugue etc is Europe's best kept secret - I've seen the prettiest women from there of all races (something in the water), especially if you have been to Zomercarnaval.
 

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To me, Rotterdam is hard compared to Amsterdam. Really hip/high class stuff, unless you go to a student-type bar. There are a couple of techno-clubs. If you're into that you should check out the Catwalk. If you like the vibe, it's a good place to be. If you're into more exotic girls, Rotterdam is a good place for you. The center is really multi-culti compared to other cities.

Eindhoven, the Hague and ESPECIALLY Utrecht are better for going out in my book. More college people there, which means the general education level is higher; which means less idiots and more interesting people (for me at least).

But almost everyone speaks English. The white ones anyway.
 

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Yeah I got the drift whenever I'm in Rotterdam.

Your city has the MOST beautiful women I've seen as far, hands down. Approaching for me was kinda hard, as I'd have to talk really slow and pronounce my words abit higher.

I only usually go Techno bars when in amsterdam, but when I'm in Rotterdam I hit the House/ Beach Club side of things. It was vertually impossible to even get a chick to stand and talk with me and my buddies let alone get a number.

I didn't really see much guys nailing any chicks, everybody seems like they're doing there own thing. Girls in groups all wandering off, guys doing practically nothing - this is day game tho, probably different in club enviroment.

I hear Amsterdam is the party city, Rotterdam is the working city and Haugue - I cant remember what some random guy was telling me about that.

How can I score (interact, approach, get interested) with those Antillean/ Spanish and Mulatto girls out there? - as they where the majority of the prettiest girls I observed?

And whats with the gay bottom-lip piercing? Everybody under 25 has it???
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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