Im about to move in with 4 randoms for school, I got a few plates going at school and they're all ready to get "closer" with me...my problem isnt the sex part or managing 5 plates, its the fact that i dont want my roommates thinking im some man w****. lol any advice?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Roommates thinking youre a man W****
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Are your room mates men or women? If they are men, you'll get respect and man points, if they are women, they're probably jealous and they are probably butters.
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You'll get man points and respect from the 3 guys and the girl? Just try it with her. 
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Who cares what they think?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
it doesnt matter what they think.
I'm sure they would only care if you are constantly making moaning and screaming sounds. If you respect their space they wont care how many girls you fvck. The guys will definitely give you props for it. The girl will just laugh and joke with you.
I'm sure they would only care if you are constantly making moaning and screaming sounds. If you respect their space they wont care how many girls you fvck. The guys will definitely give you props for it. The girl will just laugh and joke with you.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Makes sure you get in good with the girl. If she doesn't like you, she will mess up things with any woman you bring in when they get to talking. If she does, you're golden. The guys won't care so much if they're not jealous as long as the women you bring around don't cause much trouble.
You can definitely use this to your advantage. When this girl sees you bringing different girls to the dorm she's gonna want you. And the guys of course will see you as a pimp. Like the others said though the girl roommate could become jealous or angry that your spinning plates and mess it up for you. I'd say take the risk.
This is rarely a negative. Men will respect you and will want to hang out with you, and women will become more attracted to you.
Remember these 2 common facts about women
1. they are illogical creatures
2. they are jealous of what other women have
Number 1: Logic would dictate women would feel un-attracted to men that sleep around which is a sign of a player, but the opposite is true. Having the reputation of a womanizer will make you more attractive to women per the pre-selection theory
Number 2: Women want what other women have. If you are seen walking around with women or women know you are involved with other women you will become more attractive.
You might encounter a few women that will play games with you by pretending to be non-accepting and repulsed by your actions. Let it be known that no woman really is disgusted by a man that is a great lover and seducer of women. They respect such a man, and only play games because they are forced to act as non-accepting and appreciative by what society deems right of them to do (players = bad, hurt women etc etc)
Remember these 2 common facts about women
1. they are illogical creatures
2. they are jealous of what other women have
Number 1: Logic would dictate women would feel un-attracted to men that sleep around which is a sign of a player, but the opposite is true. Having the reputation of a womanizer will make you more attractive to women per the pre-selection theory
Number 2: Women want what other women have. If you are seen walking around with women or women know you are involved with other women you will become more attractive.
You might encounter a few women that will play games with you by pretending to be non-accepting and repulsed by your actions. Let it be known that no woman really is disgusted by a man that is a great lover and seducer of women. They respect such a man, and only play games because they are forced to act as non-accepting and appreciative by what society deems right of them to do (players = bad, hurt women etc etc)
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Da Realist said:
Exactly. IF their not jealous and good with women it wont be a problem. What are the chances they are good with women though?
There is actually a fairly high chance that they do get jealous after a while and talk sh1t behind your back.
But no big deal
My friend, why would you live the way you believe other people would have you live, rather than live the life that is yours?
If you are constantly going to be questioning the way in which you exist because you're worried about a reaction, I can't imagine yours will be the life of your dreams.
If Nelson Mandella were worried about what people would think, apartheid would still be the norm in south africa.
If Abraham Lincoln lived his life in order not to offend, we would still be trading african-americans as slaves.
Be who you are, brother. I couldn't imagine living my life compromised, I've only got one of them.
If you are constantly going to be questioning the way in which you exist because you're worried about a reaction, I can't imagine yours will be the life of your dreams.
If Nelson Mandella were worried about what people would think, apartheid would still be the norm in south africa.
If Abraham Lincoln lived his life in order not to offend, we would still be trading african-americans as slaves.
Be who you are, brother. I couldn't imagine living my life compromised, I've only got one of them.
Tictac
Banned
For certain things (many more than you might now imagine) in your life, women being among them, what other people think of you in none of your business.
Act as if it does not matter what they think, because it doesn't.
Tictac
Act as if it does not matter what they think, because it doesn't.
Tictac