Im about to move in with 4 randoms for school, I got a few plates going at school and they're all ready to get "closer" with me...my problem isnt the sex part or managing 5 plates, its the fact that i dont want my roommates thinking im some man w****. lol any advice?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Roommates thinking youre a man W****
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
E
Energizer
Guest
Are your room mates men or women? If they are men, you'll get respect and man points, if they are women, they're probably jealous and they are probably butters.
E
Energizer
Guest
You'll get man points and respect from the 3 guys and the girl? Just try it with her. 
combustiont
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Who cares what they think?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
it doesnt matter what they think.
I'm sure they would only care if you are constantly making moaning and screaming sounds. If you respect their space they wont care how many girls you fvck. The guys will definitely give you props for it. The girl will just laugh and joke with you.
I'm sure they would only care if you are constantly making moaning and screaming sounds. If you respect their space they wont care how many girls you fvck. The guys will definitely give you props for it. The girl will just laugh and joke with you.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Makes sure you get in good with the girl. If she doesn't like you, she will mess up things with any woman you bring in when they get to talking. If she does, you're golden. The guys won't care so much if they're not jealous as long as the women you bring around don't cause much trouble.
You can definitely use this to your advantage. When this girl sees you bringing different girls to the dorm she's gonna want you. And the guys of course will see you as a pimp. Like the others said though the girl roommate could become jealous or angry that your spinning plates and mess it up for you. I'd say take the risk.
This is rarely a negative. Men will respect you and will want to hang out with you, and women will become more attracted to you.
Remember these 2 common facts about women
1. they are illogical creatures
2. they are jealous of what other women have
Number 1: Logic would dictate women would feel un-attracted to men that sleep around which is a sign of a player, but the opposite is true. Having the reputation of a womanizer will make you more attractive to women per the pre-selection theory
Number 2: Women want what other women have. If you are seen walking around with women or women know you are involved with other women you will become more attractive.
You might encounter a few women that will play games with you by pretending to be non-accepting and repulsed by your actions. Let it be known that no woman really is disgusted by a man that is a great lover and seducer of women. They respect such a man, and only play games because they are forced to act as non-accepting and appreciative by what society deems right of them to do (players = bad, hurt women etc etc)
Remember these 2 common facts about women
1. they are illogical creatures
2. they are jealous of what other women have
Number 1: Logic would dictate women would feel un-attracted to men that sleep around which is a sign of a player, but the opposite is true. Having the reputation of a womanizer will make you more attractive to women per the pre-selection theory
Number 2: Women want what other women have. If you are seen walking around with women or women know you are involved with other women you will become more attractive.
You might encounter a few women that will play games with you by pretending to be non-accepting and repulsed by your actions. Let it be known that no woman really is disgusted by a man that is a great lover and seducer of women. They respect such a man, and only play games because they are forced to act as non-accepting and appreciative by what society deems right of them to do (players = bad, hurt women etc etc)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scar Tissue
Don Juan
Da Realist said:
Exactly. IF their not jealous and good with women it wont be a problem. What are the chances they are good with women though?
There is actually a fairly high chance that they do get jealous after a while and talk sh1t behind your back.
But no big deal
My friend, why would you live the way you believe other people would have you live, rather than live the life that is yours?
If you are constantly going to be questioning the way in which you exist because you're worried about a reaction, I can't imagine yours will be the life of your dreams.
If Nelson Mandella were worried about what people would think, apartheid would still be the norm in south africa.
If Abraham Lincoln lived his life in order not to offend, we would still be trading african-americans as slaves.
Be who you are, brother. I couldn't imagine living my life compromised, I've only got one of them.
If you are constantly going to be questioning the way in which you exist because you're worried about a reaction, I can't imagine yours will be the life of your dreams.
If Nelson Mandella were worried about what people would think, apartheid would still be the norm in south africa.
If Abraham Lincoln lived his life in order not to offend, we would still be trading african-americans as slaves.
Be who you are, brother. I couldn't imagine living my life compromised, I've only got one of them.
Tictac
Banned
For certain things (many more than you might now imagine) in your life, women being among them, what other people think of you in none of your business.
Act as if it does not matter what they think, because it doesn't.
Tictac
Act as if it does not matter what they think, because it doesn't.
Tictac