anybody know this guy? : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=43787 I'm assuming he was banned under another name and started a new profile
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I know him! Hell, I've known him my entire life. We hang out together everyday. I gotten to know him so well, its like we are the same person. When I'm down, he picks me up. When I'm bored, he's the one that makes my life fun and entertaining. The only issue I have with Rook, is that sometimes he keeps me up at night just chatting away... and he knows I have to get up in the morning!sosilky said:anybody know this guy? : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=43787 I'm assuming he was banned under another name and started a new profile
Funny..Rook said:I know him! Hell, I've known him my entire life. We hang out together everyday. I gotten to know him so well, its like we are the same person. When I'm down, he picks me up. When I'm bored, he's the one that makes my life fun and entertaining. The only issue I have with Rook, is that sometimes he keeps me up at night just chatting away... and he knows I have to get up in the morning!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's funny.Originally Posted by Rook
Are you a chick? From that site I read about? How old are
Yep... It's a sh!t test.... She just sh!tted on you. Are you gonna take it? do nothing? Respond with anger, hurt? The relationship was done well before a girl cheats on you... you were just too AFC to see it. But how do you respond? That is the test.
Grow up girl!