anybody know this guy? : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=43787 I'm assuming he was banned under another name and started a new profile
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I know him! Hell, I've known him my entire life. We hang out together everyday. I gotten to know him so well, its like we are the same person. When I'm down, he picks me up. When I'm bored, he's the one that makes my life fun and entertaining. The only issue I have with Rook, is that sometimes he keeps me up at night just chatting away... and he knows I have to get up in the morning!sosilky said:anybody know this guy? : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=43787 I'm assuming he was banned under another name and started a new profile
Funny..Rook said:I know him! Hell, I've known him my entire life. We hang out together everyday. I gotten to know him so well, its like we are the same person. When I'm down, he picks me up. When I'm bored, he's the one that makes my life fun and entertaining. The only issue I have with Rook, is that sometimes he keeps me up at night just chatting away... and he knows I have to get up in the morning!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's funny.Originally Posted by Rook
Are you a chick? From that site I read about? How old are
Yep... It's a sh!t test.... She just sh!tted on you. Are you gonna take it? do nothing? Respond with anger, hurt? The relationship was done well before a girl cheats on you... you were just too AFC to see it. But how do you respond? That is the test.
Grow up girl!