"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Romantic gifts
- Thread starter ascalon
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
reason guys think girls like those sweet gifts. blah blah but they might get the wrong impression.. if u buying her gifts all the time shes gonna take u for granted or think ur tryin too hard to fuk her...
and to top it off.. buying gifts for no reason is kinda weak. save it for the perfect situation..
perfect situations..
birthday(nothing TO expensive and within common sense, no fuking jewerly if u aint commited for a long time)
shes sick, (perfect for Roses.. 12 of them, even some balloons)
family death.. or if shes having a bad week.. get her one rose..
try to find the best situation,
gifts can be good.. in a way, they tell you more about your partner.. you learn more about them
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what does she read? buy her a new book.
what does she listen to? cds are great, and they are kewler if you make them yourself.
work your way up to other stuff.