"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Romantic gifts

ascalon

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I want to try the "gift technique" by giving the girl I like a romantic present.But I dont know exactly what present....

Please give me examples,i need something attractive and nto very expensive
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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eminence

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a hug or a kiss, dont buy her anything.
 

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Only Gift She Is Your Girlfriend For More Than 2 Months
 

donjuanjovi

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The thing with gifts are that most of them are stupid and useless. A dildo/vibrator on the other hands is very useful to her. After you give her said dildo/vibrator, say "It didn't come with instructions so come over to my house after school and I'll show you how to use it.":up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sexy_kuta

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gifts usually dont do much unless its for the best situation.. dont give flowers for no reason until ur at least 6 months into the relalationship..

reason guys think girls like those sweet gifts. blah blah but they might get the wrong impression.. if u buying her gifts all the time shes gonna take u for granted or think ur tryin too hard to fuk her...

and to top it off.. buying gifts for no reason is kinda weak. save it for the perfect situation..

perfect situations..

birthday(nothing TO expensive and within common sense, no fuking jewerly if u aint commited for a long time)

shes sick, (perfect for Roses.. 12 of them, even some balloons)

family death.. or if shes having a bad week.. get her one rose..
try to find the best situation,

gifts can be good.. in a way, they tell you more about your partner.. you learn more about them
 

penkitten

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why dont you start small?
what does she read? buy her a new book.
what does she listen to? cds are great, and they are kewler if you make them yourself.

work your way up to other stuff.
 
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