"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

ROM on Chins and Dips?

Vintovka

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2006
Messages
143
Reaction score
0
Location
Kentucky
I just assumed going low on dips would get the most from the movement, but read a thread where Alex said there was no reason to go past 90 degrees.

What about chins/pulls, is extending your arms to the point just before you're literally hanging by your arms useless or dangerous?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

md3sign

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2006
Messages
404
Reaction score
1
Location
Everywhere
I'm interested as to what reasons exactly Alex gave saying there's no point in going past 90 degrees. I always go low on my dips (past 90). The lower you go, the more lower chest involvement you get. That way you end up working your chest and your tris at the same time.

Chins/pulls I go all the way down (dead hang more or less). There's nothing dangerous about it. It's definitely harder to go all the way down though.
 

Mjazz

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 28, 2006
Messages
244
Reaction score
2
Its bad for your shoulder and rotator cuffs to go past 90 degrees, especially when your doing it with weight attached. For pull ups, go from a dead hang.
 

md3sign

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2006
Messages
404
Reaction score
1
Location
Everywhere
Mjazz said:
Its bad for your shoulder and rotator cuffs to go past 90 degrees, especially when your doing it with weight attached. For pull ups, go from a dead hang.
Not if you keep your elbows out. There's a different between dips (elbows in, 90 degrees) and chest dips (elbows out, lower than 90 degrees). This is what I do: http://exrx.net/WeightExercises/Triceps/WtTriDip.html

In general though dips are a tricky excersize and work for some people, not for others. Same with BTN pullups/overhead presses.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top