Hopefully we can start adding reviews to OLD profiles. “He’s not much to look at, but he can f**** like it’s his part time job”. That might give some a leg up.
Great idea; funny example.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hopefully we can start adding reviews to OLD profiles. “He’s not much to look at, but he can f**** like it’s his part time job”. That might give some a leg up.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes, you have to adjust the official figure for:The official figure is 30% but keep in mind men are not likely to admit their shortcomings openly
So the true figure is probably over 40% and nearing half of all men already
Many guys ARE incel but in denial. The human brain is weirdly strong at that
But hey, if we are heading to 50% at least you're far from alone (ironically)
Incels can't comprehend it because it's normally not anything people think about.If no one knows of the solution or how incels could control it, then the fact that "solutions" seem to randomly occur around the incels isn't much of a counterargument to what they'd gripe about
I think Rollo is great for the underlying theory - and, for men who have ascended, to keep the frame - however, his advice won't help you game a woman to find you interesting enough to go on a date with you, which of course is what PUA is supposed to help you get.Redpill vs Blackpill
Interesting how both streams started simultaneously on youtube. Face has way more viewers but I do think both sides make good points. It's healthy for the Manosphere. The truth always lies somewhere in between
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Precisely.Incels can't comprehend it because it's normally not anything people think about.
Normal people hang out with other normal people, and eventually hook up with other normal people.
The common answer is to "be more social" but then the incel sees being social as a means to an end, which causes any social behavior to be very non congruent and forced.
Normal people are naturally social because that's what normal people do without thinking.
Normal relationships are an organic, natural outcome of that.
There is no easy answer.
Incels are essentially locked out of all normal social behavior, and everything that comes with that including normal, organic relationships.
This isn't anything that's easy fixed.
It's part of the PUA con... which sells guys on the idea they can make anything happen with any chick. It's fvcking stupid. She either likes you, or she doesn't. If she doesn't like you no dancing around like a grinder monkey begging for coins will do you any good. And if she does like you, all you can do is fvck it up. But these clowns try to convince dudes with more money than brains, that any man can land a 10.Precisely.
The PUAs brainwashed guys into thinking that the "approach" needs the precision of a space shuttle takeoff, and if you are off in the slightest, you will be rejected. The reality is that women that are attracted to you are often forgiving of minor flaws and mistakes when you go talk to them. Unless you are doing something truly offensive like insulting her or staring non-stop at her boobs, it's not your approach that is the problem; you just aren't her type.
they're all on only fans making bank now from the age of like 14 lolThe world needs more sluts, otherwise it's going to be IncelWorld.