"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollo Tomassi-The Rational Male

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I've been watching his YouTube videos with the past 6 months for entertainment. I say entertainment because I agree with what he does say, however he views everything in black/white when it comes to relationships/sex typical nice guy vs bad boy and how women view them.....

He does talk about other interesting stuff like psychology and motivation of these behaviors and other ntergender Dynamics, etc.

Anyone follows this guy?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've been watching his YouTube videos with the past 6 months for entertainment. I say entertainment because I agree with what he does say, however he views everything in black/white when it comes to relationships/sex typical nice guy vs bad boy and how women view them.....

He does talk about other interesting stuff like psychology and motivation of these behaviors and other ntergender Dynamics, etc.

Anyone follows this guy?
Yeah I’ve been following the guy for almost a year now. Watching his podcast has really help digest the books that I’ve read . Yes, his views are in black and white because nothing of what he says is subjective. He doesn’t offer the 12 rules for life program on how to change your life. He offers the tools, what you do with those tools is up to you. All I know is that im glad I found his work, and unplugged from this blue pill social conditioning mindset. Life’s gets better
 

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Rollo is good. I'm suscribed to him on Youtube however I don't normally watch videos when he posts them anymore. His videos are matter-of-fact and black and white, but when you hear him have an actual debate with someone then you see that his views are very nuanced. He's a really smart guy. I highly recommend the video Rich Cooper did with him and Shawn Smith, it shows the difference between his written work and his actual mindset.

He HAS to write in the black/white authoritative tone in order to get across to the men who thoroughly blue pilled, nuance will be lost on them.
 

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I've been watching his YouTube videos with the past 6 months for entertainment. I say entertainment because I agree with what he does say, however he views everything in black/white when it comes to relationships/sex typical nice guy vs bad boy and how women view them.....

He does talk about other interesting stuff like psychology and motivation of these behaviors and other ntergender Dynamics, etc.

Anyone follows this guy?
you realize he created sosuave right?
 

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you realize he created sosuave right?
Did he? I've never gotten this impression from him. He's always said he was just a contributor way back in the day.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He didn't create Sosuave. But Rollo was a major contributor here for several years. He wrote a lot of lengthy posts which were forerunner to his blog posts, which of course turned into a book. Very insightful guy.
My mistake, for some reason I thought I read that he did years back.
 

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Way too black and white for me.
got to agree
Rollos RM got me to SS, the guy is very smart and help me learn alot of female behaviors.
However i have a hard time with his nihilistic perspective and his lack of actionable solutions.

Wish he had a bit more nuance in his way of thinking.
 

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I've been watching his YouTube videos with the past 6 months for entertainment. I say entertainment because I agree with what he does say, however he views everything in black/white when it comes to relationships/sex typical nice guy vs bad boy and how women view them.....

He does talk about other interesting stuff like psychology and motivation of these behaviors and other ntergender Dynamics, etc.

Anyone follows this guy?
I find him a bit theoretical and a bit too dry for my liking. I prefer to focus on what is practical and what I've learnt from experience, rather than to develop scientific theories about why women behave the way they do. I do have my own rules that I find serve me well:

- Don't let women lead
- Pay attention to what women do, not what they say
- Always be escalating
- Don't spend money on women
- Find out quickly if a woman is sexually attracted to you
 
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