"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HateOnMe

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Wassup djs, Just curious about the people you look up to, people who influenced you to up your game and not just that, but to improve your life also. And Why. Haha im new to these boards, so if i posted on the wrong board already, try to keep the flamin to a minimum.

Peace.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HateOnMe

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Great, my first post and I mess it up already. Damn multi threads
 

S0LID

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David DeAngelo, Jack baur, ryan of the OC.
 

Sugarfoot

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Life influences, specifically in the realm off @ss kicking:

Royce Gracie (originally influenced me back when I was in high school), Bas Rutten, Frank Shamrock, and Randy Couture.

[these guys are/were tremendous mixed martial artists]



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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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