"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Role Reversal...I can sympathize with it but it feels good lol

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Ok, how many of us have been in a Role Reversal? There's an ugly AFC girl (usually HB0-4) who you know you can get and likes you AND puts you on a pedestal. You on the other hand are always going after the 7-10s and you tell her about your adventures and not giving her the time of day as a potential interest.

I have a current role reversal situation, but I was wondering if any of you guys have been in this situation as well. I know how it feels to be the AFC guy, so I'm not too harsh with the AFC girl. But, I must admit, I see how girls get their egos boosted up so much by having the AFC worship them. (And girls getting LJBFed by a guy says A LOT considering guys don't really have friend zones.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tbh, it sucked much, at some point she was calling my place out of the blue (I was young and still living with my parents), I made up some excuses and lies so I wouldnt hurt her ego much (I think I told her I had went back with an ex, so she would stop chasing me), which makes it even more appaling on how some women can be so cold and detached about it.
 
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I've been in that situation couple of times. That one time, this fat chick was dancing and kept on looking at me. Then her friend came and was trying to make me dance with her...

Another time, this pretty russian girl (5'11) came up to me and said that she hasn't dance with someone and would like to. I dance with her but from that point on, my ego was so HIGH that I didn't wanna talk to other girls hahaha !

(And girls getting LJBFed by a guy says A LOT considering guys don't really have friend zones.)
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Of course, but the difference between girls and guys is that when a girl get the LJBF line, they usually had their fun with the guy (makeout, sex) and guys gets usually nothing.
 
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badboyjmm said:
I've been in that situation couple of times. That one time, this fat chick was dancing and kept on looking at me. Then her friend came and was trying to make me dance with her...

Another time, this pretty russian girl (5'11) came up to me and said that she hasn't dance with someone and would like to. I dance with her but from that point on, my ego was so HIGH that I didn't wanna talk to other girls hahaha !



Of course, but the difference between girls and guys is that when a girl get the LJBF line, they usually had their fun with the guy (makeout, sex) and guys gets usually nothing.
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And if the girl is really ugly and/or fat and she's obviously out of the guy's league but she still chases him anyway.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gray The Prince said:
And if the girl is really ugly and/or fat and she's obviously out of the guy's league but she still chases him anyway.
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Yep. We always want the best, even if we are not the best ourselves !
 
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Is it only me to dont have any ego boost from ugly girls being interested?

Actually it could be the opposite,if an ugly/fat girl makes a move on me I even doubt about me cause I know for sure that in front of an attractive guy she would realise to be out of his league,so if she makes that move on me she really thinks that....I cant get anything more...
 
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Strelok said:
Is it only me to dont have any ego boost from ugly girls being interested?

Actually it could be the opposite,if an ugly/fat girl makes a move on me I even doubt about me cause I know for sure that in front of an attractive guy she would realise to be out of his league,so if she makes that move on me she really thinks that....I cant get anything more...
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Nah, its sort of hurts the ego if its some ugly chick you don´t know making a move on you. If it´s a ugly chick friend its differente because she starts to "develop feelings" on you, and confuses stuff.
 
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Radharc said:
Nah, its sort of hurts the ego if its some ugly chick you don´t know making a move on you. If it´s a ugly chick friend its differente because she starts to "develop feelings" on you, and confuses stuff.
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This^ If fatties and uggos start hitting on you, esp at a club, then that means you need to fix yourself and hit the gym so they'll go away

In this case, we're talking about an ugly chick you friendzoned, and she likes you how an AFC likes a hot girl that friendzoned him.
 
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