Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Role Reversal...I can sympathize with it but it feels good lol

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Ok, how many of us have been in a Role Reversal? There's an ugly AFC girl (usually HB0-4) who you know you can get and likes you AND puts you on a pedestal. You on the other hand are always going after the 7-10s and you tell her about your adventures and not giving her the time of day as a potential interest.

I have a current role reversal situation, but I was wondering if any of you guys have been in this situation as well. I know how it feels to be the AFC guy, so I'm not too harsh with the AFC girl. But, I must admit, I see how girls get their egos boosted up so much by having the AFC worship them. (And girls getting LJBFed by a guy says A LOT considering guys don't really have friend zones.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tbh, it sucked much, at some point she was calling my place out of the blue (I was young and still living with my parents), I made up some excuses and lies so I wouldnt hurt her ego much (I think I told her I had went back with an ex, so she would stop chasing me), which makes it even more appaling on how some women can be so cold and detached about it.
 

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I've been in that situation couple of times. That one time, this fat chick was dancing and kept on looking at me. Then her friend came and was trying to make me dance with her...

Another time, this pretty russian girl (5'11) came up to me and said that she hasn't dance with someone and would like to. I dance with her but from that point on, my ego was so HIGH that I didn't wanna talk to other girls hahaha !

(And girls getting LJBFed by a guy says A LOT considering guys don't really have friend zones.)
Of course, but the difference between girls and guys is that when a girl get the LJBF line, they usually had their fun with the guy (makeout, sex) and guys gets usually nothing.
 

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badboyjmm said:
I've been in that situation couple of times. That one time, this fat chick was dancing and kept on looking at me. Then her friend came and was trying to make me dance with her...

Another time, this pretty russian girl (5'11) came up to me and said that she hasn't dance with someone and would like to. I dance with her but from that point on, my ego was so HIGH that I didn't wanna talk to other girls hahaha !



Of course, but the difference between girls and guys is that when a girl get the LJBF line, they usually had their fun with the guy (makeout, sex) and guys gets usually nothing.
And if the girl is really ugly and/or fat and she's obviously out of the guy's league but she still chases him anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gray The Prince said:
And if the girl is really ugly and/or fat and she's obviously out of the guy's league but she still chases him anyway.
Yep. We always want the best, even if we are not the best ourselves !
 

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Is it only me to dont have any ego boost from ugly girls being interested?

Actually it could be the opposite,if an ugly/fat girl makes a move on me I even doubt about me cause I know for sure that in front of an attractive guy she would realise to be out of his league,so if she makes that move on me she really thinks that....I cant get anything more...
 

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Strelok said:
Is it only me to dont have any ego boost from ugly girls being interested?

Actually it could be the opposite,if an ugly/fat girl makes a move on me I even doubt about me cause I know for sure that in front of an attractive guy she would realise to be out of his league,so if she makes that move on me she really thinks that....I cant get anything more...
Nah, its sort of hurts the ego if its some ugly chick you don´t know making a move on you. If it´s a ugly chick friend its differente because she starts to "develop feelings" on you, and confuses stuff.
 

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Radharc said:
Nah, its sort of hurts the ego if its some ugly chick you don´t know making a move on you. If it´s a ugly chick friend its differente because she starts to "develop feelings" on you, and confuses stuff.
This^ If fatties and uggos start hitting on you, esp at a club, then that means you need to fix yourself and hit the gym so they'll go away

In this case, we're talking about an ugly chick you friendzoned, and she likes you how an AFC likes a hot girl that friendzoned him.
 
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