"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Role model personas from movies

gav

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brad pitt in fight club
vin diesel in boiler room
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Derek Flint

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Originally posted by Alpine
Out did James Bond? Me thinks not.

Saw him training with Lee on video. Hands totally fvcked with arthritis, cool bloke though.
Have you seen the "Flint" movies?

BTW, Coburn overcame his arthritis by using Glucosamine and MSM
 

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Yeah, too Bond like. Hard to see them in isolation.

I've seen most of his films, very underated actor. Strangely, apart from The Seven, the best film I saw him in, he was a pick pocket.

Can't remember what it was called, good plot with twists and turns.
 
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