"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Role model personas from movies

gav

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brad pitt in fight club
vin diesel in boiler room
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Alpine
Out did James Bond? Me thinks not.

Saw him training with Lee on video. Hands totally fvcked with arthritis, cool bloke though.
Have you seen the "Flint" movies?

BTW, Coburn overcame his arthritis by using Glucosamine and MSM
 

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Yeah, too Bond like. Hard to see them in isolation.

I've seen most of his films, very underated actor. Strangely, apart from The Seven, the best film I saw him in, he was a pick pocket.

Can't remember what it was called, good plot with twists and turns.
 
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