Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
Rocco invented love making. I have nothing but satisfied customers. Some of them might need therapy now but hey.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's not a fair contest if doctoroxygen always wins.The Truth said:Oh my god! A thread debating porn stars?
What next?
The Don Juan Discussion Forum's Annual Masturbation Awards
Fastest masturbator
Best technique
Most Endurance
Most times per day
and so on.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AHAHAHAHAHAHA I knew you had a gaydar to judge MALE pornstars... Who the hell is Rocco Siffredi?KarmaSutra said:Hedgehog rules!
You're still bumping this thread? You really must have a thing for Rocco. :cheer:Jayer said:bump
What's more worrying is that it's a debate about male pornstars. Female is still sad, but understandable. Male is just... well, you know.The Truth said:Oh my god! A thread debating porn stars?
What next?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well you gotta understand that there are gay posters like KarmaSutra, Dues and BigJohn who are obsessed about MALE PORN STARS like Peter North.diablo said:What's more worrying is that it's a debate about male pornstars. Female is still sad, but understandable. Male is just... well, you know.
I bet you wish that you were Peter North, he gets more ass than you'll get in a life time. :crackup:Serialized3 said:Says the guy named "PeterNorthisawesome"![]()
If I was praising his gay work then I would say Matt Ramsey cuz that's his name for all his gay pornos. Peter North is all the straight ones, so maybe you should do some research next time moron.Serialized3 said:You mean he gets it up the ass more than I ever will in a lifetime.
Man-hors are disgusting, and I've turned down more ONS than you'll ever have in your lifetime.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.