"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Roadtrip by myself

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I just bought a new car, it will be delivered in a few months and was thinking of making a roadtrip to burn it in.

Problem is, I've never gone on a trip by myself. A roadtrip might be better, because you stay in a place just for a couple of hours or a day maximum. The horror of being seen just by myself in a restaurant or a pub is a great anxiety. An anxiety I need to get over, as one of many. But then again, I want to see so many places and am such an introvert that I need to do it sometime.

Do you guys think this is a good idea?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nothing wrong with going out by yourself. Don't worry about who sees you and what they think. But if you are worried look at it like this. For all they know you could be in town on business and business people and go out alone and all the time.
 
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