"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Risk and Reward

ApocalypseCow2

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A basic concept of business is the direct relationship between risk and reward.

The riskier something is, the higher the potential for reward. Or, to put it another way, doing "safe things" will rarely bring in a lot of cash.

I don't think I have to spell out how this relates to women. If you are willing to risk some ego (i.e. possible rejection), your rewards can be huge. Conversely, if you don't risk anything, you'll get nothing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IMO, most people just don't see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Cause and effect have switched places, giving people a "Nothing gained, nothing ventured" attitude towards things. Maybe people can't run on hope and faith?

Perhaps people are more goal-oriented than the super-successful are willing to admit, at least in the sense that they're looking for tangible rewards for their actions, not some "______ is its own reward" psychobabble.

Maybe life has gotten so good for so many that having better just isn't worth sticking their necks out anymore?
 

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You got that from burnout 3 (xbox) didn't ya?
 

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Originally posted by cobrajoe
You got that from burnout 3 (xbox) didn't ya?
Me? Heh heh, no. It's a pretty well known economic principle, though. How can something that is common (i.e. safe) be profitable?
 

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People play it safe because they've got something to lose.

If taking a risk and failing only cost you what you were after, instead of also costing you something you already had, then more people would take more risks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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