"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Risk and Reward

ApocalypseCow2

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A basic concept of business is the direct relationship between risk and reward.

The riskier something is, the higher the potential for reward. Or, to put it another way, doing "safe things" will rarely bring in a lot of cash.

I don't think I have to spell out how this relates to women. If you are willing to risk some ego (i.e. possible rejection), your rewards can be huge. Conversely, if you don't risk anything, you'll get nothing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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IMO, most people just don't see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Cause and effect have switched places, giving people a "Nothing gained, nothing ventured" attitude towards things. Maybe people can't run on hope and faith?

Perhaps people are more goal-oriented than the super-successful are willing to admit, at least in the sense that they're looking for tangible rewards for their actions, not some "______ is its own reward" psychobabble.

Maybe life has gotten so good for so many that having better just isn't worth sticking their necks out anymore?
 

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You got that from burnout 3 (xbox) didn't ya?
 

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Originally posted by cobrajoe
You got that from burnout 3 (xbox) didn't ya?
Me? Heh heh, no. It's a pretty well known economic principle, though. How can something that is common (i.e. safe) be profitable?
 

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People play it safe because they've got something to lose.

If taking a risk and failing only cost you what you were after, instead of also costing you something you already had, then more people would take more risks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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