"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rise above all and become the great man every man wants to be

jhonny9546

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Hi guys, something we don't often talk about here is how to embody that figure...
That figure of a man of true value, truly scarce, sought after, admired by other man and also indirectly seeked by women.

What are the checkpoints that allow you to understand and rebalance yourself towards what makes a man great and valuable among all the others?
Pillars that once your way its lost you use to guide back on track..

If this perspective is the main focus of your life, it's very important to have a clear understanding of what a "true" man of value is.
It's really essential to have the right pillars as guides.

Imagine wanting to make a carbonara and having the wrong recipe, which would have you use sausages instead of pancetta. The result would be an excellent carbonara, but with a flavor so different from the best and original one.

Or imagine shaving your beard with the wrong razor blade... You'll only cause harm.

So, just as there are good guidelines for understanding who you are and how to become a "true" man of value, there are universal things that need to be put into perspective and rebalanced.


it's also what you think about every day and what you put into perspective for what you want to do, so it's knowing every day where you are on the path with yourself. So, where your life is going.

If you don't know what a good level is, you'll never know where you stand.

And for those who have been less fortunate, whatever state you find yourself in, you can rediscover yourself and follow the right path.

In fact, many of us haven't had access to valuable information that would have allowed us to create guidelines to follow.

We can say that generally, we humans are a species that is very good at following rules.
In this case, if you have bad or terrible rules, you'll play a terrible game and produce terrible results, so we're just making sure we create rules that lead us to play a top-notch game.
(Not the GAME as you know, but the game to become a solid man, everyday)

The true rules of the game that can elevate our value.

We need to help as many men as possible. This teaches our brotherhood and friendship
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BaronOfHair

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One idea:

Stop "trying" at everything, and start going all the way in every endeavor you embark upon:



From '16-the present, we've been in the midst of a revival of the mindset denounced between 6:14-6:24. And the results have been disastrous... One only "achieves" by falling on his ass a few billion times, thus leaving behind a biography littered with innumerable incidents of UNGREATNESS
 
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