"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rise above all and become the great man every man wants to be

jhonny9546

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Hi guys, something we don't often talk about here is how to embody that figure...
That figure of a man of true value, truly scarce, sought after, admired by other man and also indirectly seeked by women.

What are the checkpoints that allow you to understand and rebalance yourself towards what makes a man great and valuable among all the others?
Pillars that once your way its lost you use to guide back on track..

If this perspective is the main focus of your life, it's very important to have a clear understanding of what a "true" man of value is.
It's really essential to have the right pillars as guides.

Imagine wanting to make a carbonara and having the wrong recipe, which would have you use sausages instead of pancetta. The result would be an excellent carbonara, but with a flavor so different from the best and original one.

Or imagine shaving your beard with the wrong razor blade... You'll only cause harm.

So, just as there are good guidelines for understanding who you are and how to become a "true" man of value, there are universal things that need to be put into perspective and rebalanced.


it's also what you think about every day and what you put into perspective for what you want to do, so it's knowing every day where you are on the path with yourself. So, where your life is going.

If you don't know what a good level is, you'll never know where you stand.

And for those who have been less fortunate, whatever state you find yourself in, you can rediscover yourself and follow the right path.

In fact, many of us haven't had access to valuable information that would have allowed us to create guidelines to follow.

We can say that generally, we humans are a species that is very good at following rules.
In this case, if you have bad or terrible rules, you'll play a terrible game and produce terrible results, so we're just making sure we create rules that lead us to play a top-notch game.
(Not the GAME as you know, but the game to become a solid man, everyday)

The true rules of the game that can elevate our value.

We need to help as many men as possible. This teaches our brotherhood and friendship
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BaronOfHair

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One idea:

Stop "trying" at everything, and start going all the way in every endeavor you embark upon:



From '16-the present, we've been in the midst of a revival of the mindset denounced between 6:14-6:24. And the results have been disastrous... One only "achieves" by falling on his ass a few billion times, thus leaving behind a biography littered with innumerable incidents of UNGREATNESS
 
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