"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rippetoe's program/personal trainer

goodfoot

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It seems to be mentioned a lot on this site but I can't find a post spelling out where it is. I'm back in college and now have free access to a gym so I have no reason not to start work.

I was wondering if getting a personal trainer would be a good idea. I've never dealt with weightlifting and am a bit unsure of how things work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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goodfoot said:
It seems to be mentioned a lot on this site but I can't find a post spelling out where it is. I'm back in college and now have free access to a gym so I have no reason not to start work.

I was wondering if getting a personal trainer would be a good idea. I've never dealt with weightlifting and am a bit unsure of how things work.
Yeah getting one with a respectable background in bodybuilding/powerlifting is your best bet. Nothing can replace a good mentor.
 
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