"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rippetoe's and Fitness

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Hi all, I'm wondering what the feasibility of doing Rippetoe's Starting Strength routine along with some interval training for cardiovascular profficency - 3 x 5 squats 3 times a week surely means your legs are fried the whole time?


I'm looking for strength, size and fitness in roughly that order: a capable/aesthetically pleasing physique essentially.


I'm 60Kg (132lbs), 5'7'' and just turned 18 years old. My max 2 x 5 lifts coming off a 7 week period on the second workout routine on the website sticky:


Deadlift - 115Kg (253lbs)
Squat - 92.5Kg (203.5lbs)
Incline Bench - 62.5kg (137.5lbs)


I've read a little about complexes on off days - maybe they're the way to go?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EFFORT

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do two moderate intensity cardio sessions a week on the elliptical or stationary bike . 30min on any 2 off days.
 

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i play intense pick up basketball games at least twice a week while doing rippetoes. i usually play basketball on a different day, and my knees are fine.

my schedule is this, mon, wed, fri, lift weights
sat and sun, play basketball
sometimes i play basketball on tues, sometimes i play basketball before or after lifting weights. my love for the game enables me to do this
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Carpe.Diem

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@ Mr.Positive: that's a great link! My initial set up was all wrong too, I was starting with my shins touching the bar and it felt alot easier in the gym yesterday even if it felt a little unnatural at first. Thanks for sharing.


Just a question on the moderate cardio: what kind of heart rate does that involve? 60%, 70%..?
 
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