"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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http://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-43398187
https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/03/stephen-hawking-is-still-underrated/555590/

He met his future wife, Jane Wilde, in college, before he was diagnosed with life-altering disease. She stayed with him, and they had three children.






He wasn't much in the way of looks, or money, and he didn't have any status yet. It was his later fame that drove he and Jane apart. She hated being famous. They grew apart, and he left her for one of his nurses:



The second marriage was tumultuous, turbulent, and scandalous. It lasted six years.

Then he went back to Jane, and they were together until he died.


Rest in Peace, DJ Hawking
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stephen Hawking is Albern Eistain of our era. I hope we will get more minds like of him. Rest in peace my fellow earthling. We are many countries, many nationalities, but we are one. And one we go, together along this path of life.
 
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backseatjuan said:
Stephen Hawking is Albern Eistain of our era.
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I used to read some physicists forums, and there seemed to be a consensus there that there were a lot better minds in physics, and that Stephen Hawking was revered mainly because he was famous. I don't know enough about the subject to know whether or not that it true, but that's what they said.

Be that as it may, I can't help but be impressed by his perseverence in the face of his ALS. He must have suffered a lot in life, and like you, I wish him peace.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's interesting looking at him and his first wife. He married her young and although she fvcked around on him, she never completely lost interest in him.
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If you look at the ages of the people involved, these people grew up in a previous era, they're fairly "old school". Those of us who grew up in earlier times seem to understand more readily the value of continuing relationships. The kids dismissively call this "blue pill" now, in favor of the hookup culture, but they don't really understand what it is they're throwing away.
 
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Desdinova said:
....and her fvcking around on him

It's interesting looking at him and his first wife. He married her young and although she fvcked around on him, she never completely lost interest in him.
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Cause he wanted her to **** around, cause he couldn't ;)

The guy an inspiration for these points:

He showed that no matter the disabilities and challenges mental or physical:
1) you could get a girlfriend and laid
2) you can be successful in business (his books being the most sold on the matter)
3) a sense of humour is a great weapon
4) you can have kids
5) you can become famous

In short... he's an inspiration of determination, will power, human success.

How can such a small guy be so BIG

PS: what he wrote on was really interesting and inspired movies (interstellar)

To zekko: probably there are bigger minds but they likely labrats... they don't go out in public. Albert Einstein wasn't the greatest of his era... he did publish life changing material but there were bigger people in his time and smarter who made stronger contribution...but we don't remember them. Einstein had a PR/Marketing mind with his genius, like Hawking.
 
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God did get his ass though...for being an Atheist ...RIP... smart ? I don't think so..
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Red Legg said:
God did get his ass though...for being an Atheist ...RIP... smart ? I don't think so..
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He is smart, it is a fact.

Nothing wrong being an atheist. It's his free will to choose what he believes in.
 
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A) Free will does not exist B) he is a fool who does not believe in God. (the ultimate alpha) "The fool says in his heart there is no God.They are corrupt.their deeds are vile;there is no one who does good. C) Hawking was a fool.
 
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Desdinova said:
....and her fvcking around on him

It's interesting looking at him and his first wife. He married her young and although she fvcked around on him, she never completely lost interest in him.
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Offcourse she didn't completely lose interest in him.. He was a celebrity, had status and value.. If he was just another dude, she would have left him to rot.
 
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Offcourse she didn't completely lose interest in him.. He was a celebrity, had status and value.. If he was just another dude, she would have left him to rot.
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I don't think he was a celebrity though when they first got together, or when he first was diagnosed with ALS. IIRC.
 
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zekko said:
I don't think he was a celebrity though when they first got together, or when he first was diagnosed with ALS. IIRC.
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He was a student with a dream

It's implied in the book which made the movie that he pushed his wife towards falling in love/extra affairs.

Because he was too advanced in his disease, she had to take care of him (he's a baby), and 3 kids.

So a woman with 1 income, 4 dependant , no sex.

He also started to fall for his nurse (who he married and was beaten, violated)

So his first wife who was still a friend and was always good to him and him to her, father of his kids.

Of course she'll come back to make sure he's fine.

It's called caring (and making sure their kids know their father in a positive light)

Woman are not all about money lol.

His ex wives was their with her lover when he was knighted.

Note: she was married 30 years to him... would you live 30 years with a woman in his condition)

Jane (the first wive) is still married to her lover (the guy who aided her and hawking)

It's hawking who filed for divorce of Jane.

During hawking 2nd marriage of 10 years, he didn't talk to his family.

Hawking and Jane love story is exceptional
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I agree the fact that Hawking was famous and renowned for his intelligence sort of nullifies any credit we'd give to his woman for staying with him. If he was just a normal person who was crippled, would she?

As far as him and Albert Einstein.. I think the link below shows he gets the better of him :)

 
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