"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RIP George Best
- Thread starter seanchai
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Not Quite There
Senior Don Juan
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I don't understand why people say his life was a waste??
He did more in 60 years than most people will do.
Personally, if my life was half as exciting as his i would be pleased.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
I'd rather have a life like Best and die young than your average joe boring life, to be honest.
RIP Best.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Monkey
Master Don Juan
What? getting constantly drunk, fvcking up your body and beating up your girlfriend?
doctoroxygen
Master Don Juan
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Hell, forget the football sh*t! That's all I'LL remember him by!
stevera004
Senior Don Juan
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http://www.theage.com.au/news/world...with-his-mother/2005/11/26/1132966006979.html
"I spent a lot of money on booze, birds and fast cars. The rest I just squandered."
