picard
Master Don Juan
when is it proper to grab a woman for a kiss? I mean a deep kiss not a peek on the cheek. I wouldn't want to offend her and be charged with sexual assault 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
right time to kiss a woman???
- Thread starter picard
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
there is no "proper time" that is in stone. You have to trust your gut instict as to whether or not she's "feeling it". Usually at the night if theres an akward pause as you're saying goodnight she's thinking "kiss me you fool".
DanishDJ
Don Juan
If she switches between looking at your eyes and your mouth, then your sure.Originally posted by picard
when is it proper to grab a woman for a kiss? I mean a deep kiss not a peek on the cheek. I wouldn't want to offend her and be charged with sexual assault
Isn't there something in the DJ Bible regarding the kiss close?
No I just looked and I couldn't find it.
I just go for it when I think it's time. Usually you can kiss close at the end of a date.
There is a kiss close test but I forget how it goes.
No I just looked and I couldn't find it.
I just go for it when I think it's time. Usually you can kiss close at the end of a date.
There is a kiss close test but I forget how it goes.
Here's my MO
about 15mins before the date ends, give her a piece of gum or one of those breath freshener (that's typically a "hint") and just grab her close to you and kiss her. It works for me.
If she doesn't kiss back...get rid of her. she just not into you.
about 15mins before the date ends, give her a piece of gum or one of those breath freshener (that's typically a "hint") and just grab her close to you and kiss her. It works for me.
If she doesn't kiss back...get rid of her. she just not into you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.