"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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right time to kiss a woman???

picard

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when is it proper to grab a woman for a kiss? I mean a deep kiss not a peek on the cheek. I wouldn't want to offend her and be charged with sexual assault :rolleyes: :woo:
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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there is no "proper time" that is in stone. You have to trust your gut instict as to whether or not she's "feeling it". Usually at the night if theres an akward pause as you're saying goodnight she's thinking "kiss me you fool".
 

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Originally posted by picard
when is it proper to grab a woman for a kiss? I mean a deep kiss not a peek on the cheek. I wouldn't want to offend her and be charged with sexual assault :rolleyes: :woo:
If she switches between looking at your eyes and your mouth, then your sure.
 

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Isn't there something in the DJ Bible regarding the kiss close?

No I just looked and I couldn't find it.

I just go for it when I think it's time. Usually you can kiss close at the end of a date.

There is a kiss close test but I forget how it goes.
 

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Here's my MO


about 15mins before the date ends, give her a piece of gum or one of those breath freshener (that's typically a "hint") and just grab her close to you and kiss her. It works for me.

If she doesn't kiss back...get rid of her. she just not into you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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