picard
Master Don Juan
when is it proper to grab a woman for a kiss? I mean a deep kiss not a peek on the cheek. I wouldn't want to offend her and be charged with sexual assault 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
right time to kiss a woman???
- Thread starter picard
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
there is no "proper time" that is in stone. You have to trust your gut instict as to whether or not she's "feeling it". Usually at the night if theres an akward pause as you're saying goodnight she's thinking "kiss me you fool".
DanishDJ
Don Juan
If she switches between looking at your eyes and your mouth, then your sure.Originally posted by picard
when is it proper to grab a woman for a kiss? I mean a deep kiss not a peek on the cheek. I wouldn't want to offend her and be charged with sexual assault
Isn't there something in the DJ Bible regarding the kiss close?
No I just looked and I couldn't find it.
I just go for it when I think it's time. Usually you can kiss close at the end of a date.
There is a kiss close test but I forget how it goes.
No I just looked and I couldn't find it.
I just go for it when I think it's time. Usually you can kiss close at the end of a date.
There is a kiss close test but I forget how it goes.
Here's my MO
about 15mins before the date ends, give her a piece of gum or one of those breath freshener (that's typically a "hint") and just grab her close to you and kiss her. It works for me.
If she doesn't kiss back...get rid of her. she just not into you.
about 15mins before the date ends, give her a piece of gum or one of those breath freshener (that's typically a "hint") and just grab her close to you and kiss her. It works for me.
If she doesn't kiss back...get rid of her. she just not into you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.