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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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right arm weaker than the left

Not Quite There

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anyone esle suffer from this? I am right handed, so you would think it would be stronger, but no! I think because of the overuse of it, its a bit dodgy, I have some kind of pain in the elbow, possibly tennis elbow.

Yesterday at the gym, 2 people i was spotting for had there right amrs give way on them, whats the reason for this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warboss Alex

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Pure and simply, one arm is stronger than the other.

There's no real way to get around this, work them both out hard and the difference might be improved, but really it's something you're stuck with genetically I'm afraid.

Muscular/strength imbalances are extremely common.
 

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I don't think genetics have a lot to do with it. I have a different theory. I think that some (right handed)people use their left arm more as a supporting arm and their right arm for fine motor skills. If, for example, you were to open a bottle of coke, personally I would usually lift the bottle up with my left hand and twist of the top with my right hand. This way your left arm gets strained more, and as a result gets stronger.

It could also be that when someone notices one arm is bigger than the other, that person exercises the smaller arm more to compensate. That person might then train it so much more, that it becomes bigger and stronger than the previously stronger one.
 

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Alternate hands while jerking off. You're overusing one side.
 

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My left arm is weaker than my right; I'm just holding up my right at the moment on bicep/tricep stuff so my left can catch up. Not too much difference between the two, really.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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At the end of the day they're both muscle, and it is absolutely possible to make the lagging one catch up. Its' no easy task given that you can't work one side without the other reaping at least some of the benefits, but it can be done.

That said, I wouldn't waste my time, unless were talking something major here.
 
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