"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Right arm vs Left Arm?

Lost

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For some reason ive noticed in the past month or two ( maybe it was before then i dont remember..) that my right arm has a somewhat larger size then my left... do yall have any info or tips on this and how to make them even? ive only been using barbell for a couple weeks now...

Also is it possible for ur arms to get smaller after u go to sleep? lol. i mean i did biceps and legs on friday and they were looking good yesterday but now my right arm looks smaller...(unless its just my imagination..) but it was looking pretty good last night...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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payaya

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im left handed, so my left arm is bigger. Its like this for a lot of people. Even before i started going to the gym.
 

JohnnyVegas

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Best thing to do if you want them closer to the same size is keep the weight exactly the same for all one-armed exercises. As long as it's not freakish looking there really is nothing to worry about, of course.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ Fedorov

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If you play certain sports like baseball, hockey, golf, etc then I think it's possible that one could be a little bigger than the other, like in Hockey I shoot left handed so my left arm is just a little bigger, but not much though.
 
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