"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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right arm gets more exercise than left

kmr89

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naturally, since I am right-handed, I do more things with my right arm. Therefore my left arm is a bit skinnier than my right lol. any way to change that efficiently?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Jerk off with your OTHER hand..... :p

Oh come on, somebody had to say it!!!! :D
 

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When you lift you stimulate type b fibers. When you do most work in ordinary life you use typa a fibers. The latter is small and won't grow as much. Just lift normal and it will be fine. Some time ago my left arm was weaker than my right and now they are equally strong and almost as big. 9 mm difference in my forearms. 1.3 cm on the upper arms. This doesn's show.
 

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one way could be to exercise the left arm more right? ex: when lifting weights, lift more with the left so they both even out.

correct me if i'm wrong.

and i already tried and now my left arm is sore, which is a good sign.

again, correct me if i'm wrong :D
 

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If you are using dumbells just do the same each side. You can do shoulder presses, bent over rows, curls and tric. ext. with a dumbell, just be careful with the collars.

This should be sufficient as the left side will have to work harder to catch up anyway.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Alpine
If you are using dumbells just do the same each side. You can do shoulder presses, bent over rows, curls and tric. ext. with a dumbell, just be careful with the collars.

This should be sufficient as the left side will have to work harder to catch up anyway.
Or then if you are training your arms separately, start with your left and do the same amount with you right??
 
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