"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ridin' With Mayfly - Life and Approaches

Mayfly

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Well I figure I might as well post on here since I have posted several times before about my successes and my failures. At this point in my life, 21 years old, I figure I have already missed out on a solid number of years in the game. My life somewhat went downhill in high school and went back up. It's funny how life is like a roller coaster. So I figured I might as well take the bull by the grundel and take charge of my life with women and such.

It's my last semester of college, so I figure in 5 weeks I can get some serious game down, since I have confidence and the drive to actually do it.

One thing I found out is that habits are hard to break, good or bad. If you have a habit of approaching girls, you will never have to get out of it, because it's a solid habit. I have recently fell upon the habit of stealing. It's a bad one, but I figure while I am young, white, and middle-class I might as well give it a go. Tonight I successfully stole $750 worth of clothing from a local mall and sporting goods store. In five days after Christmas, I reached $1,250 in that span. I took a break off of it, and I just realized the high I get out of it. I am going to back down off of it, and use the same rush I do with chatting up some ladies.

Follow me in my up and downs in the game and in life, you will enjoy it.

"I'm from the bottom, so I still feel em from the bottom
Underdog before my cape, still couldn't stop him
Flash Gordon when recording, spark the light in the dark
Peter Park, Spiderman, all I do is climb the charts" ~ Jay-Z
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pressure0354

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i don't get the point but anyway..

id be careful man, one time i stole something and they had an undercover cop who stopped me at the door. it becomes not worth it really quick once that happens.
 

Mayfly

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The point of this is to have an approach and life journal. Just a way to get my thoughts out and get feedback. I am really careful with the other thing though. Tomorrow my real game begins.
 

Mayfly

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Well today I woke up kind of late so I couldn't try to sarge at class. I saw plenty of HBs around campus, but most of them have their IPods in and are listening to them. Are there any tips on how to open up girls with IPods? Besides the simple question of "what are you listening to?"
 

JPFromTally

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There was a guy I knew who used to brag about stealing. One night he threw a party at his house and got retarded drunk. My friends stole his Ipod and a laptop. I drew all over his face with a magic marker while he was sleeping.

Karma's a b1tch.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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realsmoothie

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Stealing isn't cool. You gonna tell these girls that this sweet new A&F (lol) shirt you're wearing you STOLE?

No?
 

Mayfly

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I am through with stealing, it just kinda gave me a rush that I never had before. If a girl asks where I got my shirt, I am going to tell her the store. That always works.
 
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