"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ridin' With Mayfly - Life and Approaches

Mayfly

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Well I figure I might as well post on here since I have posted several times before about my successes and my failures. At this point in my life, 21 years old, I figure I have already missed out on a solid number of years in the game. My life somewhat went downhill in high school and went back up. It's funny how life is like a roller coaster. So I figured I might as well take the bull by the grundel and take charge of my life with women and such.

It's my last semester of college, so I figure in 5 weeks I can get some serious game down, since I have confidence and the drive to actually do it.

One thing I found out is that habits are hard to break, good or bad. If you have a habit of approaching girls, you will never have to get out of it, because it's a solid habit. I have recently fell upon the habit of stealing. It's a bad one, but I figure while I am young, white, and middle-class I might as well give it a go. Tonight I successfully stole $750 worth of clothing from a local mall and sporting goods store. In five days after Christmas, I reached $1,250 in that span. I took a break off of it, and I just realized the high I get out of it. I am going to back down off of it, and use the same rush I do with chatting up some ladies.

Follow me in my up and downs in the game and in life, you will enjoy it.

"I'm from the bottom, so I still feel em from the bottom
Underdog before my cape, still couldn't stop him
Flash Gordon when recording, spark the light in the dark
Peter Park, Spiderman, all I do is climb the charts" ~ Jay-Z
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pressure0354

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i don't get the point but anyway..

id be careful man, one time i stole something and they had an undercover cop who stopped me at the door. it becomes not worth it really quick once that happens.
 

Mayfly

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The point of this is to have an approach and life journal. Just a way to get my thoughts out and get feedback. I am really careful with the other thing though. Tomorrow my real game begins.
 

Mayfly

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Well today I woke up kind of late so I couldn't try to sarge at class. I saw plenty of HBs around campus, but most of them have their IPods in and are listening to them. Are there any tips on how to open up girls with IPods? Besides the simple question of "what are you listening to?"
 

JPFromTally

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There was a guy I knew who used to brag about stealing. One night he threw a party at his house and got retarded drunk. My friends stole his Ipod and a laptop. I drew all over his face with a magic marker while he was sleeping.

Karma's a b1tch.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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realsmoothie

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Stealing isn't cool. You gonna tell these girls that this sweet new A&F (lol) shirt you're wearing you STOLE?

No?
 

Mayfly

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I am through with stealing, it just kinda gave me a rush that I never had before. If a girl asks where I got my shirt, I am going to tell her the store. That always works.
 
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