"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ridiculous sjw article on toxic masulinity

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's ridiculous about it?
 

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Anything that is defined as "toxic masculinity" in that article is exatly what I saw any time there was a woman in charge.

Something like bashing as dissidents thow who suggested an alternative view as much as using manipulation and bullying to get ahead on someone.

The only things I saw with a man in command was prolonging working time and effort to match the goal once it was not sure if such goal was to be matched within the dead line.

Not saying that a toxic environment doesnt allow to work properly, just saying that those red flags in my experience are more common if a female lead environment than a male lead one.

I also find it funny how they bash man for having a "winner takes it all mentality" when actually such mentality is the most fair things existing meaning that he who reach the goal gets the rewards.

When it comes of women the winner takes it all goes way beyond that, meaning that those who dont win are seen as lesser individuals even outisde such task.
 

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Toxic masculinity doesn't exist. It's a made up concept used to attack, demean, and seize power from men.

Mercilessly mock anyone who uses it.
There is this thing along the same lines, where your either "gay" ( helps them ) or a "mysogenist". I guess I'm a mysogenist, they got the puzzy and I got the dyck. Very simple.
 

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There is no such thing as toxic masculinity, this is just a mirror concept of feminists. I grew up playing competitive sports and when in the heat of the game it was cut throat as hell , but after the game we shook hands and actually if someone didn't see us during the game they would think we were all best friends. Even today if I run into a guy I played against in my youth we start talking about how great those times were and start talking with each other about our current day lives almost like we were some sort of old friends that ran into each other after not seeing each other for years. Women on the other hand will hate a competitor of theirs for the rest of their lives, they are the true scorched earth loving nut jobs and even when they win they have problems winning gracefully, they simply do not respect their vanquished. The concept of toxic masculinity mirrors this female behavior.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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