There is no such thing as toxic masculinity, this is just a mirror concept of feminists. I grew up playing competitive sports and when in the heat of the game it was cut throat as hell , but after the game we shook hands and actually if someone didn't see us during the game they would think we were all best friends. Even today if I run into a guy I played against in my youth we start talking about how great those times were and start talking with each other about our current day lives almost like we were some sort of old friends that ran into each other after not seeing each other for years. Women on the other hand will hate a competitor of theirs for the rest of their lives, they are the true scorched earth loving nut jobs and even when they win they have problems winning gracefully, they simply do not respect their vanquished. The concept of toxic masculinity mirrors this female behavior.