"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ride vs Residence

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I've ridden sport bikes for a little over 10 years now and have finally parted ways with it. I have some cash saved to put a very decent down on a brand new Harley. However as a renter, I've been becoming interested in owning some property like a condo or townhome. A friend of mine has told me owning vs renting makes all the difference with women. However as a rider of motorcycles, I've found getting women with one is easy as well. I'm hoping to get some opinions from those who have had the pleasure of owning both. As of right now I only have enough cash for one of the 2. My income is decent however it would take me years to save up to get both, especially with rent being so damn high these days.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've been becoming interested in owning some property like a condo or townhome. A friend of mine has told me owning vs renting makes all the difference with women.
Yeah, if they are looking for a husband/provider type. The girls who will have sex with you because of the motorcycle are a different breed. They will not care at all if you are a renter. Women don't do the sexy bad boy on the bike because they are fantasizing about his investment portfolio.

And a new Harley? wtf, man? That is a fail on both levels. New bikes are a horrible investment. Women can't tell a $25,000 Harley from a $2,500 Yamaha.

Did you ditch the sport bike due to lack of comfort? Or for other reasons? There are a lot of cool bikes out there, depending on where and how you want to ride. I would never own a Harley, but there are a few custom v-twins I have seen that might be tolerable.
 

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Most auto purchases are poor investments unless your a collector of extravagant vehicles. Purchasing property is almost always a good investment.

Because your decision seems based on gaining better access to women, neither will do that for you.
 

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Yeah, if they are looking for a husband/provider type. The girls who will have sex with you because of the motorcycle are a different breed. They will not care at all if you are a renter. Women don't do the sexy bad boy on the bike because they are fantasizing about his investment portfolio.

And a new Harley? wtf, man? That is a fail on both levels. New bikes are a horrible investment. Women can't tell a $25,000 Harley from a $2,500 Yamaha.

Did you ditch the sport bike due to lack of comfort? Or for other reasons? There are a lot of cool bikes out there, depending on where and how you want to ride. I would never own a Harley, but there are a few custom v-twins I have seen that might be tolerable.
Well I work in the auto industry and have some dealer friends who will cut me great deals on models they have at their stores. So that's why I'm leaning towards new. And I sold my bike because I'm over that scene. Too many careless, young riders and sport bikes are getting stolen all the time in the city I'm living in.

The Harley is personal preference. I suppose I wrote this out wrong. I'm not expecting a woman to put out because I'm driving a Harley as opposed to a Honda.
 

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Which asset will appreciate in the next 5 years? Most likely the home. Can you get your Mortgage payment to less than your current rent? Interest on a mortgage is a tax deduction also. Could you rent out a room for extra cash? With that savings and additional income you could potentially still afford a new bike.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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