Went out Friday to a new bar. Instantly bonded with some of the women working there.
I have a routine of asking a few questions about them that tends to lock them in.
Lots of flirtatious banter back and forth. Then i get into comfort with them and maybe share something i've done recently that demonstrates high value. I try to go into how the past couple of years have been rough for everyone.. which everyone agrees, and i say i am a little more focused on having fun since life is short.
Then i mention a place i really like to eat and tell them "Let's go to X restaurant sometime, they have great food and drinks"
It's rare i don't get an enthusiastic response. Their tacit agreement means the next time i see them its a little more likely they will go.
I haven't cashed in on those receipts yet but it's likely i will
I have a routine of asking a few questions about them that tends to lock them in.
Lots of flirtatious banter back and forth. Then i get into comfort with them and maybe share something i've done recently that demonstrates high value. I try to go into how the past couple of years have been rough for everyone.. which everyone agrees, and i say i am a little more focused on having fun since life is short.
Then i mention a place i really like to eat and tell them "Let's go to X restaurant sometime, they have great food and drinks"
It's rare i don't get an enthusiastic response. Their tacit agreement means the next time i see them its a little more likely they will go.
I haven't cashed in on those receipts yet but it's likely i will