"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Richard the Frog......is he banned? Lol

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You know I always look at it like this..........it is up to the YOU, the individual to determine how the Richard's in the world make you feel and how you react to them. Richard is a very interesting person, that shared a lot of personal stories that I enjoyed. I don't agree with his mode of operation exactly, but its his not mine. It doesn't matter if you agreed with him or not, its about what you can learn from a guy like Richard. Sometimes its best to just sit back and observe. Practice a little self control and don't feel the need to set him right or reply. Don't let people get to ya so easily. ;-)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The best reason to not let this site turn into hookertalk.com is that under the new laws in the US, if a web site like sosuave does so much as post a link to another page where one may solicit sexual services, then the owner of sosuave is criminally guilty of human trafficking. The new law is insanely ridiculous, but as of now it is still the law.

As far as Richard goes, it is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick, so I always wanted to see this web site help him. But the dude is terminally ill.
 

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No but mentally ill people can be unpredictable. Besides he f****d more hot girls than us...or as the fantasy goes. Walter Mitty anyone?
 

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Richard was provoked, A LOT and especially this last go round. Who isn't going to fire back? With all the humble brag posting, outright boast posts, self-defeat posts, full blown black pill posts, etc Rich exposed himself in all of his insecurities. Ego at the door. Wether he is who he says he is, idk nor care. I enjoyed his posts anyways. Whatever he's doing, he's doing it right. He's got ppl mad and talking about him and i dont think it's all because he's controversial. I think it's because he is a mirror to allot of crazy on this board. Regardless, y'all fools be cool, I'm out. The game is to be sold...
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Richard was provoked, A LOT and especially this last go round. Who isn't going to fire back? With all the humble brag posting, outright boast posts, self-defeat posts, full blown black pill posts, etc Rich exposed himself in all of his insecurities. Ego at the door. Wether he is who he says he is, idk nor care. I enjoyed his posts anyways. Whatever he's doing, he's doing it right. He's got ppl mad and talking about him and i dont think it's all because he's controversial. I think it's because he is a mirror to allot of crazy on this board. Regardless, y'all fools be cool, I'm out. The game is to be sold...

Dueces.
 

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He had many chances. If you want to be an idiot and childish you'll get banned. Simple as that.

This website is about men helping other men become better versions of themselves. We all have things we can work on. By insulting others because they bang 6/10 rednecks it helps no one.

We don't coddle our members, but when it's a recurring issue that spans across multiple members that makes us have to deal with pettiness, it's a hassle to deal with. He had plenty of opportunity to do better.
 

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You should consider dating bigdave, he'll give you the "princess" treatment and he'll be so attentive that he'll be at your side constantly 24/7.

Isn't that grand?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You should consider dating bigdave, he'll give you the "princess" treatment and he'll be so attentive that he'll be at your side constantly 24/7.

Isn't that grand?
I’m sure he’d find some imperfection somewhere (nose slightly too small or something) and go back to dreaming of filtered photos of Instagram girls.
 

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You should consider dating bigdave, he'll give you the "princess" treatment and he'll be so attentive that he'll be at your side constantly 24/7.

Isn't that grand?
I'm feeling suffocated just reading that.

I imagine that's probably how he is when he finds a woman he is into.

It's difficult finding that balance of being into someone without being overbearing.
 

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Richard was responsible for Richard.

It's one thing to make repeated posts asking variations of the same question.

It's quite another thing to seek out particular members via PM (or on the open forum) & attack them personally. That's simply not cool, mature or useful. The moderators actually do an admirable job in referee-ing this kind of stuff IMO. Provoked or not we are all responsible for our own equilibrium & self control. We are responsible for what we post or message here.

No excuse for his behavior. I hope he continues to grow in his own life. I hope his house does well, I hope he sees a therapist (preferably a red pill aware man), and I hope he learns impulse control & self control.

Otherwise it is just desserts.
 

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I imagine that's probably how he is when he finds a woman he is into.
More then likely.

If it's a woman it's pretty harmless - physically, but when it's a man then it's something to be wary.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think everyone has had their say. Let's close this thread and move on.
 
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