jt the azn
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I have heard contradicting responses from people who have read this book. What's your opinion. I'm still deciding if I want to buy this book.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So explain why increasing your passive income wouldn't be a good thing.spesmilitis said:I don't respect that book at all. Robert T Kiyosaki endorses the pyramid scam network 21 by amway. This one guy tried to get my into that stuff. Since I didn't know what pyramid scams were at the time, I went to an informational meeting. He gave me a ride and on the way there he played a cd of Kiyosaki. At the meeting, the presenters were talking how smart Kiyosaki is and also mentioned that Kiyosaki said that if he had to start all over again, he would do it though network 21. Near the end of the meeting when the guys were asking me for a buttload of money to join, it hit me that this is a scam. I then noticed that Kiyosaki's material played perfectly into the psychology tactics that network 21 used to recruit people.
I don't think his book was meant specifically to be used by network 21 as that book is successful on its own to make a lot of profit.
Take a look at the controversy section of this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Kiyosaki
Also, I noticed that the majority of the people who read rich dad poor dad are college students, unsuccessful adults, or adults who are successful at scamming people.
jvd said:I read the book, and I really enjoy his other material too. Now this book is obviously not perfect since it doesn't get into specifics and but it is more of an eye opener, and there is controversy on how his business practices are. (I am not going to get into more details, since it will take a long time to explain and this not a "business" site) Overall it's a good read !
What did my post have to do with increasing passive income? If you think pyramid scams are a great way to make money . . .Francisco d'Anconia said:So explain why increasing your passive income wouldn't be a good thing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you want details on this guy, and his book, follow my link above.Frenchconnection said:Actually please do! This is the "anything else" forum after all.
Kiyosaki's entire premise on wealth is based on creating passive income. Multi-level marketing is just one way to create passive income (if done correctly). How much do you know about his ideas about creating wealth?spesmilitis said:What did my post have to do with increasing passive income? If you think pyramid scams are a great way to make money . . .
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&rls=com.microsoft%3Aen-us&q=pyramid+schemes
Not understanding the information would definitely make it useless.Luveno said:This book is a whole lot of motivational thinking but absolutely no practical application, which makes it useless...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
But he does show you how you use it among other methods as passive income in order to lower your taxable earned income.Jayer said:I agree with this Italian dude who's name I can't pronounce. Kiyosako has sound philosophy. And if you actually read his books he says multi level marketing is good in order increase sales skills and confidence to move onto bigger things. He doesnt directly say this will make you rich.
All multi-level marketing corporations are scams. Most of the money they make are from their own participants.Francisco d'Anconia said:Kiyosaki's entire premise on wealth is based on creating passive income. Multi-level marketing is just one way to create passive income (if done correctly). How much do you know about his ideas about creating wealth?
If you'd like to see multi-level marketing that works study any corporation whose sales directors who are paid bonuses based on the commission of their sales managers.spesmilitis said:All multi-level marketing corporations are scams. Most of the money they make are from their own participants.
http://www.quackwatch.org/01QuackeryRelatedTopics/mlm.html
http://www.mlmwatch.org/
just google multi-level marketing
Everyone is familiar with "The Matrix" as it applies to women? It's the same with money, that's why people who aren't clued in about how to make REAL money in a reasonable period of time (while you are still young enough to enjoy it) are obviously inclined to give it a bad review.jt the azn said:I have heard contradicting responses from people who have read this book. What's your opinion.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.