"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rex Man's No Frills Guide To Getting A$$

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Are you sick of being scared to approach and sick of not getting as much (any?) tang as you feel you deserve?

If you follow these simple as Palin rules; I GUARAN-FVCKING-TEE you will see improvement.

--Oh, and before the "Real Don Juans" begin telling me how this stuff isn't 'new', I don't really care. Getting a$$ isn't new so why would the info in here be??

1) Stop jerking off.

I didn't say stop jerking off alot. Or stop jerking off to porn. STOP JERKING OFF. You will automatically be in a more sexual state. Even while you sleep, dreams you can't remember will be of sexual nature.

2) Keep yourself looking and smelling good.

Guys tend to underestimate just how shallow girls can be. You don't have to be Brad Pitt, but if you smell good, openings begin popping up like the Detriot defensive line.

3) Don't try to act like something/someone else.

This goes hand-and-hand with the first rule. The sexual you will be more authentic (Read=seductive) and more suave than you can ever fake. Women have a sense for this and if you exude this; you are head and shoulders above the crowd.

4) Have at least a few friends with similar romantic goals

Self-explanatory. If I want to play some B-ball, I call my athletic friends. If I want to get down in some Halo, I call my gamer friends. If I want to snag some new tail, I call one of the two/three wingmen I trust.



I wish a sincere good luck to all in their individual endeavors.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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devoncassidy said:
approach anxiety
ohhhhhh, I thought he meant Affirmative Action pu$$y!

Approach Anxiety:

First off, if you follow the 4 easy rules, you will be in a more sexual state and having a good vibe among your party. Not to mention you will have more innate confidence because you're looking good and smelling dreamy.

That said, if you're still having problems with AA ( :rolleyes: ) do these 2 things

A) Keep your emotions in check. No matter what happens keep your emotions DOWN. Don't be swayed by fear, anger, lust, success; nada. Make the roots of your confidence so strong that your being cannot be swayed by the winds of circumstance.

B) Make your approaches seem effortless. This goes hand-in-hand with the first part. Keep your emotions down and make effortless approaches. You will be unstoppable. Believe it
 
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Luke!! said:
Good stuff rex man. I think the biggest thing into the whole puzzle is mind state. I have seen guys try and walk all tough and do other things with body language to convey confidence. You can read through it though. Until it is natural and built in your head your going to look like and idiot and be ripped on constantly.
Unfortunately, many guys that aren't having success don't want to do what they have to do to improve their situations so they ask questions ad nauseam until they get the answer they wanna hear.

That's the primary purpose of this guide. If someone is not having any 'luck' and is violating one of these key, easy-to-remember rules, they don't need advice, they need a swift kick in the rectum.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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