"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you guys think is the best way to rekindle interest in an ex gf:

1) Contacting her months after breakup in her birthday to try to meet up and continue as friends? And build attraction from there, show her that you've moved on, all is cool, talk about new places you've been to make her wonder with whom...

2) Ignoring it completely which may shock her and get her thinking about what you're doing, if you have forgotten already about her.

FYI she broke up with me 3 months ago, after 2y.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Depends on how you guys broke up, what happened leading up to it, if you handled it coolly/begged,yelled,pleaded, if she jumped onto someone else, etc.
 
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We had the perfect relationship, she even told me when breaking up that she was 100% in love but then i left to study abroad for 6 months.

When I came back she told me she didn't feel the same and she lost the hope in the relationship, that she wasn't excited about it anymore.

I handled it really coolly, never begged or pleaded. I contacted her again after 1 month and asked her if she was sure that this was what she wanted. She said that we could only stay as friends and that I should meet other people, I told her we couldn't be friends as she has not cared for me at all since we broke up, and she said that it was to help me recover. I reacted a bit angrily but she texted me happy birthday etc last month, and this week is her birthday.
 
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