"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Revive Interest

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What do you guys think is the best way to rekindle interest in an ex gf:

1) Contacting her months after breakup in her birthday to try to meet up and continue as friends? And build attraction from there, show her that you've moved on, all is cool, talk about new places you've been to make her wonder with whom...

2) Ignoring it completely which may shock her and get her thinking about what you're doing, if you have forgotten already about her.

FYI she broke up with me 3 months ago, after 2y.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Depends on how you guys broke up, what happened leading up to it, if you handled it coolly/begged,yelled,pleaded, if she jumped onto someone else, etc.
 
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We had the perfect relationship, she even told me when breaking up that she was 100% in love but then i left to study abroad for 6 months.

When I came back she told me she didn't feel the same and she lost the hope in the relationship, that she wasn't excited about it anymore.

I handled it really coolly, never begged or pleaded. I contacted her again after 1 month and asked her if she was sure that this was what she wanted. She said that we could only stay as friends and that I should meet other people, I told her we couldn't be friends as she has not cared for me at all since we broke up, and she said that it was to help me recover. I reacted a bit angrily but she texted me happy birthday etc last month, and this week is her birthday.
 
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