"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reverse psychology when chicks tell you they had a great time with you

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Anyone ever try using reverse psychology when chicks give you the standard "I had a great time with you tonight" after a date even if you bang them?

Meaning instead of simply "agreeing" saying something like: "Yea. It was good spending time with you...but I'm not sure..We'll need to go out one more time to decide if we really get along well. Let's set something up soon to make sure we're right for each other."

I might try that when a chick seemingly gives me the "I had a great time" throwaway line and see if it gets their hamster spinning wondering what you weren't so sure about and that you really need to see them again to decide. Even IF they act like they can't wait to see you again. Give them a bit of anxiety..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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adam225

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NO, why on earth would you want to ? Just be honest and speak your mind. If you enjoyed your time together then just say. Don't lie or play mind game... that's just pathetic....

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Sorry I take back what I originally said - It all comes down to her and what kind of person she is. If she is a disrespectful little wh0re, then play her left, right and center. If she's a decent and polite women, and has showed you respect, then treat her the same. No, decent down to earth person deserves to be messed around.
 
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I think you'd accomplish the same thing by simply saying "yeah", and leaving at that. She would think you're not sold, but probably won't push you verbally.


I've done it, and meant it a couple times, and seems to make them work harder.
 

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Lol what's the point. Be suave.
 

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"Yeah it was interesting" is the way to go, not some contrived posture, which they will see right through. Sometimes they will come back with, "just interesting?" to which the reply is "what could be better than interesting?" At this point, she will often invite me to her place to prove she is more than just interesting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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