"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reverse psychology when chicks tell you they had a great time with you

HumbleNinja

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Anyone ever try using reverse psychology when chicks give you the standard "I had a great time with you tonight" after a date even if you bang them?

Meaning instead of simply "agreeing" saying something like: "Yea. It was good spending time with you...but I'm not sure..We'll need to go out one more time to decide if we really get along well. Let's set something up soon to make sure we're right for each other."

I might try that when a chick seemingly gives me the "I had a great time" throwaway line and see if it gets their hamster spinning wondering what you weren't so sure about and that you really need to see them again to decide. Even IF they act like they can't wait to see you again. Give them a bit of anxiety..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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adam225

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NO, why on earth would you want to ? Just be honest and speak your mind. If you enjoyed your time together then just say. Don't lie or play mind game... that's just pathetic....

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Sorry I take back what I originally said - It all comes down to her and what kind of person she is. If she is a disrespectful little wh0re, then play her left, right and center. If she's a decent and polite women, and has showed you respect, then treat her the same. No, decent down to earth person deserves to be messed around.
 
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I think you'd accomplish the same thing by simply saying "yeah", and leaving at that. She would think you're not sold, but probably won't push you verbally.


I've done it, and meant it a couple times, and seems to make them work harder.
 

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Lol what's the point. Be suave.
 

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"Yeah it was interesting" is the way to go, not some contrived posture, which they will see right through. Sometimes they will come back with, "just interesting?" to which the reply is "what could be better than interesting?" At this point, she will often invite me to her place to prove she is more than just interesting.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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