"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reverse psychology when chicks tell you they had a great time with you

HumbleNinja

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Anyone ever try using reverse psychology when chicks give you the standard "I had a great time with you tonight" after a date even if you bang them?

Meaning instead of simply "agreeing" saying something like: "Yea. It was good spending time with you...but I'm not sure..We'll need to go out one more time to decide if we really get along well. Let's set something up soon to make sure we're right for each other."

I might try that when a chick seemingly gives me the "I had a great time" throwaway line and see if it gets their hamster spinning wondering what you weren't so sure about and that you really need to see them again to decide. Even IF they act like they can't wait to see you again. Give them a bit of anxiety..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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adam225

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NO, why on earth would you want to ? Just be honest and speak your mind. If you enjoyed your time together then just say. Don't lie or play mind game... that's just pathetic....

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Sorry I take back what I originally said - It all comes down to her and what kind of person she is. If she is a disrespectful little wh0re, then play her left, right and center. If she's a decent and polite women, and has showed you respect, then treat her the same. No, decent down to earth person deserves to be messed around.
 
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I think you'd accomplish the same thing by simply saying "yeah", and leaving at that. She would think you're not sold, but probably won't push you verbally.


I've done it, and meant it a couple times, and seems to make them work harder.
 

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Lol what's the point. Be suave.
 

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"Yeah it was interesting" is the way to go, not some contrived posture, which they will see right through. Sometimes they will come back with, "just interesting?" to which the reply is "what could be better than interesting?" At this point, she will often invite me to her place to prove she is more than just interesting.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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