"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Everybody mention's that you do not want to be "that guy". The one that listen's to the female friend's problems. The guy that accepts all of her emotional stress, and the guy that listen's and attempts to fix her problems.

Is there any benefit to YOU as the DJ venting your personal problems to a given woman? Do woman actually enjoy seeing your "soft" side? They seem to be much more emotinal being's, and maybe expressing your personal problems to her could be a good thing?

Example:

Girl: Hey how was your day?
Guy: Not very good, Ive been kinda sad today...
Girl: Why? What happened?
Guy: Well me and my dad got in a fight today, and it ended up with me and him crying and it has left me in a pretty depressed mood
Girl: blah blah blah


Would this be a bad move to express feelings and personal problems to a female? Just something I was pondering, seeing as to how woman seem to enjoy drama/emotional/moody conversations * soap opera's.

Imagine it is a female you are trying to pursue, and know very well.

Good or bad move.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you like to associate with negative people?
Do you think a man displaying weakness is an attractive trait?

No, no, no, and no.
That doesn't mean you can't get stuff off your chest or talk about stuff that is bothering you to your LTR girl if you have a deep enough connection.

Just don't make it a habit. And don't do it unless the girl has genuine feelings for you.

In the meantime, grab a straw and suck it the f^ck-up.
 
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