Reverse emotinal tampon ?

[pvf94]

Everybody mention's that you do not want to be "that guy". The one that listen's to the female friend's problems. The guy that accepts all of her emotional stress, and the guy that listen's and attempts to fix her problems.

Is there any benefit to YOU as the DJ venting your personal problems to a given woman? Do woman actually enjoy seeing your "soft" side? They seem to be much more emotinal being's, and maybe expressing your personal problems to her could be a good thing?

Example:

Girl: Hey how was your day?
Guy: Not very good, Ive been kinda sad today...
Girl: Why? What happened?
Guy: Well me and my dad got in a fight today, and it ended up with me and him crying and it has left me in a pretty depressed mood
Girl: blah blah blah


Would this be a bad move to express feelings and personal problems to a female? Just something I was pondering, seeing as to how woman seem to enjoy drama/emotional/moody conversations * soap opera's.

Imagine it is a female you are trying to pursue, and know very well.

Good or bad move.

 

[Kev07]

very bad, most cases will throw you STRAIGHT into LJBF

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Do you like to associate with negative people?
Do you think a man displaying weakness is an attractive trait?

No, no, no, and no.
That doesn't mean you can't get stuff off your chest or talk about stuff that is bothering you to your LTR girl if you have a deep enough connection.

Just don't make it a habit. And don't do it unless the girl has genuine feelings for you.

In the meantime, grab a straw and suck it the f^ck-up.

 

[Kev07]

you want to avoid this with your guy friends too.

if you just broke up and have to tell someone your feelings, go ahead, but don't start doing it all the time or you will annoy the crap out of everyone.