"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Revenge of the AW: she stood me up.

gimmeyofonenumba

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Lemme jsut say, that this chick is an Attention wh0re, not sure what level,(i would like to find that post though) anyways. It started out with me getting her number, and talking to her for a lil bit. I call about 3-4 days later, and set up a date for coffee.

However, When i called the first time, she wasnt too sure who I was, and "got me mixed up" with a few other people with my same name. I think she was just trying to mess with my mind or something, so.. I end the convo, with "ok, ill call you tommorow"

So, the next day, i was kinda pissed with the previous convo, and felt shady and not really confident in calling her again, so i thought it would be a wise decision to not call her, and thats what i did.

Now, the day after that. I call again, She says "oh ya, i remember now, hey wasup..." but she doesnt mention anything about the date we had set, nor do I. I was trying to get something going that day, but she said "oh i have a few things to take care of here, and work in a few hrs but how bout tommorow..." She sounded cheerful, and i was happy. Now, that was yesterday. I call her around the time i said i would call her today, and she doesnt pick up, i leave a msg on the machine, and that was it.

Whats my next step DJ's? NEXT her? call her in a few days? and if i call her, should i tell her whatsup with her not answering/breaking the date?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So pimp its scary

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MWUAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!

Where's the crying face when you need it...

Suck it up princess.
 

So pimp its scary

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
Whats my next step DJ's? NEXT her? call her in a few days? and if i call her, should i tell her whatsup with her not answering/breaking the date?
Now that I actually took the time to read what you wrote... Next step?? You want to pursue this girl that disrespected you like that. Start prequalifying girls more... also, do more to pique there interest.

Reason why she doesn't answer the phone is because she is NOT attracted to you... don't lose sleep about it, but you have 0.1 % chance of success with this girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JJMcLure

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She was playing games from the start.

She is feeding off your attention. Imagine it like this, every time you give her attention she gets STRONGER and you get WEAKER.

So what do you need to do? Give her NO attention. Don't be rude if you see her, just treat her like anyone else. But don't try to make contact with her at all.

She will waste your time for as long as you allow - find another chick who appreciates your time and reciprocates your efforts.
 

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Katie got to you too?
:)

Dude, fonz speaks from experience.....RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! A girl like this ruined my life when i was in a vunerable fragile state about 2 years ago, this will end very tradjically if you let this girl get into your head. She doesn't care, she will never care because she's a professional. She inherited it from her mom, who got from her mom, who can trace it back to an ancient tribe in Georgia where they breed attention *****s in an effort to conquer the world.....i know the smile is seductive as hell but see it for what it will be in the future, pure misery:(
 
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