"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Revenge of the AW: she stood me up.

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Lemme jsut say, that this chick is an Attention wh0re, not sure what level,(i would like to find that post though) anyways. It started out with me getting her number, and talking to her for a lil bit. I call about 3-4 days later, and set up a date for coffee.

However, When i called the first time, she wasnt too sure who I was, and "got me mixed up" with a few other people with my same name. I think she was just trying to mess with my mind or something, so.. I end the convo, with "ok, ill call you tommorow"

So, the next day, i was kinda pissed with the previous convo, and felt shady and not really confident in calling her again, so i thought it would be a wise decision to not call her, and thats what i did.

Now, the day after that. I call again, She says "oh ya, i remember now, hey wasup..." but she doesnt mention anything about the date we had set, nor do I. I was trying to get something going that day, but she said "oh i have a few things to take care of here, and work in a few hrs but how bout tommorow..." She sounded cheerful, and i was happy. Now, that was yesterday. I call her around the time i said i would call her today, and she doesnt pick up, i leave a msg on the machine, and that was it.

Whats my next step DJ's? NEXT her? call her in a few days? and if i call her, should i tell her whatsup with her not answering/breaking the date?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MWUAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!

Where's the crying face when you need it...

Suck it up princess.
 
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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
Whats my next step DJ's? NEXT her? call her in a few days? and if i call her, should i tell her whatsup with her not answering/breaking the date?
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Now that I actually took the time to read what you wrote... Next step?? You want to pursue this girl that disrespected you like that. Start prequalifying girls more... also, do more to pique there interest.

Reason why she doesn't answer the phone is because she is NOT attracted to you... don't lose sleep about it, but you have 0.1 % chance of success with this girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She was playing games from the start.

She is feeding off your attention. Imagine it like this, every time you give her attention she gets STRONGER and you get WEAKER.

So what do you need to do? Give her NO attention. Don't be rude if you see her, just treat her like anyone else. But don't try to make contact with her at all.

She will waste your time for as long as you allow - find another chick who appreciates your time and reciprocates your efforts.
 
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Katie got to you too?
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Dude, fonz speaks from experience.....RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! A girl like this ruined my life when i was in a vunerable fragile state about 2 years ago, this will end very tradjically if you let this girl get into your head. She doesn't care, she will never care because she's a professional. She inherited it from her mom, who got from her mom, who can trace it back to an ancient tribe in Georgia where they breed attention *****s in an effort to conquer the world.....i know the smile is seductive as hell but see it for what it will be in the future, pure misery:(
 
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