OK guys Ive had a realisation that I MIGHT be doing something wrong. weather it is a bad thing or not. Could anyone tell me what this means.
OK - I am mature student - in uni for the short term taking time out after a divorce(not complex yet) its all good at the mo and the fog is nearly cleared.
so from start of the course I have 2 women I latched onto to early on ,we hang out within class houses she's 40 odd (married) the other one is 20 odd but she's got a stick up her ass but we all get on well with them that's it. the other men in the class group together but the women are more receptive to me not many men in the class.
Now.
12 years ago I had a 6 month course on and an overseas placement two girls hung with me all the time one was jealous but kept saying I wouldn't get that girl or that girl needless to say I kept my distance after a while but I've never asked any more of them since (haven't seen them for years)
what's getting me Im repeating the pattern don't know if its a good thing or a bad thing mind you there's always a day Id like **** one of them just for my own kicks. but I think it might work against me cos its frigging university people talk. and u get but****ed.
I wanna know what it is... theres a niggling I should dissociate?
OK - I am mature student - in uni for the short term taking time out after a divorce(not complex yet) its all good at the mo and the fog is nearly cleared.
so from start of the course I have 2 women I latched onto to early on ,we hang out within class houses she's 40 odd (married) the other one is 20 odd but she's got a stick up her ass but we all get on well with them that's it. the other men in the class group together but the women are more receptive to me not many men in the class.
Now.
12 years ago I had a 6 month course on and an overseas placement two girls hung with me all the time one was jealous but kept saying I wouldn't get that girl or that girl needless to say I kept my distance after a while but I've never asked any more of them since (haven't seen them for years)
what's getting me Im repeating the pattern don't know if its a good thing or a bad thing mind you there's always a day Id like **** one of them just for my own kicks. but I think it might work against me cos its frigging university people talk. and u get but****ed.
I wanna know what it is... theres a niggling I should dissociate?